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april 16, 2007

We all have a pattern - What is yours?

You walk around reminding yourself to be cautious next time when you meet a guy. You think you’ve learned something from earlier relationships – mysteriously enough, you end up doing the same mistakes even how much you try not to. It seems like I'm doomed to meet guys who's either not completely over their x-girlfriends.. or they just dont know what they feel for me or what they want.
I wonder.. Are we all victims of conditioned responses, doomed to repeat the same unconscious relationship patterns? Are we all in fact just dating the same person over and over again?
..if so: should you break the pattern, and date someone who's not really your type? (since your type always seem to dissapoint you)
I did try it, and i must say that it was more dissapointing than ever.

posted by Regine @ 19:29  

4 Comments:

  • At 18 april, 2007 04:40, Blogger di.di said…

    my boyfiends or should i put it exes are normally the only son in da family or the youngest son, the breadwinner.. all i can say is most of them are mama's boy..

    have faith in love...your true love, soulmate will come to you...

     

  • At 18 april, 2007 05:55, Blogger Jessica said…

    I need my type. Who else would remind me of my self hatred?

     

  • At 18 april, 2007 13:17, Blogger Regine said…

    drama div@: mama's boys,huh?sounds sweet;O but i guess it has its ups and downs. everything does.
    soulmate.. you believe in that?i did before. but now i feel like its more about the timing.i dont know.
    jessica: then dont break your pattern.. (:

     

  • At 23 april, 2007 05:41, Blogger Indiana James said…

    can't say that I have a type... but as far as repeating, from a guy's point of view, and maybe this applies to everyone out there. we go back to what we are familiar with and what we were comfortable with when it was right. some of it is getting comfortable with yourself first and then being able to share that with someone else. the ties that bind aren't always those which look or sound the same, but you won't know what works until you try.

     

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